October: Domestic Violence Awareness Month

By Jacqui Grantland, PhD, LCPC

Inner Peace Therapeutic Services, LLC

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October: Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Every October, we unite as a community to bring attention to a pressing and pervasive issue: domestic violence. This month is recognized as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a campaign that sheds light on the tragic reality many face behind closed doors.

The Pervasive Reality

Domestic violence isn’t constrained to any one demographic. It affects people of all races, ages, socioeconomic statuses, and genders. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, one in three women and one in four men in the U.S. have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner.

Different Types of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a multifaceted issue, manifesting in various forms. The effects of this abuse can be devastating, leaving both seen and unseen wounds on survivors.

1. Physical Abuse: This is the most recognizable form, including hitting, slapping, choking and other acts of physical harm.
2. Emotional Abuse: It involves diminishing the victim’s self-worth, often through humiliation, constant criticism, or intimidation.
3. Sexual Abuse: Coercing or attempting to coerce any unwanted sexual behavior without consent. This includes marital rape.
4. Economic Abuse: Taking control over the victim’s finances, withholding money, or preventing the victim from working.
5. Psychological Abuse: Causing fear through intimidation; threatening to physically hurt oneself, the partner, children, destruction of property; and harming pets.
6. Stalking: Repeatedly watching, following, or harassing a person, causing them to fear for their safety.

Symbolism of the Purple Ribbon

During October, many advocates and supporters wear a purple ribbon as a symbol of their solidarity against domestic violence. This simple gesture is a powerful way to send a message of support to survivors and let them know they’re not alone.

Awareness Leads to Action

Awareness campaigns highlight resources available for those affected, from shelters to legal assistance. Domestic Violence Awareness Month encourages us to recognize the frequency of this abuse as well as the impact that it has on survivors and their families.

What Can You Do?

1. Educate Yourself and Others: Understand the signs of domestic violence and know the resources available in your community.
2. Speak Out: Challenge and condemn the normalization of violent behaviors in society.
3. Support Victims: Let those affected know that they are not alone and encourage them to seek help.
4. Donate: Support your local shelters and national organizations that work tirelessly to protect victims and provide resources.
5. Engage in Community Initiatives: Community resources are an important piece in supporting survivors by proving them guidance, housing, and counseling. These resources can help survivors break free from the cycle of abuse occurs with domestic violence. In our local community, some of the resources include Southern Maryland Center for Family Advocacy, Victim Services through St. Mary’s County Sheriff Office, and Lifestyles. Inc.

Moving Forward

As we mark Domestic Violence Awareness Month, it’s essential to remember that the issue isn’t restricted to just October. Every day, countless individuals face the trauma of abuse. It’s on us as a community to continuously work towards a world where everyone feels safe and respected in their own homes.