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Janet V. Johnson, MD
Children Need Cheerleaders
Loving Care Pediatrics

Children Need Cheerleaders

Children Need Cheerleaders

By providing encouragement and love, individuals can unlock their potential and thrive, leading to the development of their self-esteem. When we continuously uplift and affirm our children by saying, “I see your capabilities, and you have succeeded,” they gain the confidence to conquer any subject or task, instilling a belief in their abilities to excel in all areas of life.

Fostering a child’s self-esteem requires warmth, love, encouragement, and positive reinforcement. These elements contribute to nurturing a child’s self-confidence and belief in themselves.

In our society today, it is common for individuals to criticize themselves and their children constantly. This pattern often stems from their own upbringing, which involved constant criticism, belittlement, and abuse. Unfortunately, some insensitive parents label their children as “losers,” “lazy,” “dumb,” or “cowards,” causing lasting wounds and self-doubt.

Parents often place irrational expectations on their children, failing to recognize and appreciate their unique talents and abilities. It is essential for parents to encourage their children to succeed by acknowledging their God-given talents and not expecting them to conform to something they are not capable of or have no interest in. Forcing a child with a musical inclination into a sports team they dislike, such as football or soccer, is counterproductive and undermines their self-esteem.

A common mistake parents make is imposing a uniform standard on all their children. However, King Solomon’s wisdom advises parents to educate each child according to their individual inclinations. Every child possesses distinct strengths, tendencies, and unique abilities. We should never evaluate or compare one child to another, as each child should be guided in a way that is suitable for their own growth. Comparing a child to their sibling or anyone else can be considered a form of verbal abuse. Instead, children should be raised to embrace and celebrate their individuality.

Parents have a significant role in instilling self-confidence and self-esteem in their children through the immeasurable love and attention they provide. These tools for life far surpass what any academic degree in education can offer. It is the responsibility of parents to educate their children and impart moral values.

Here are four steps to effectively encourage success:

  1. Offer focused attention: Take the time to prioritize each child individually. They cherish moments of undivided attention. Designate special days or activities for each child to create treasured memories.
  2. Provide individual affirmation: Help your children discover their strengths and guide them in developing their skills. Understand each child’s unique personality, addressing both their positive and negative aspects. Tailor your approach to meet each child’s individual needs.
  3. Express genuine appreciation: Avoid cultivating bitterness in your children. Acknowledge their achievements and let them know what they have done well. Show parental support, assuring them that you are on their team. While addressing mistakes is important, do not allow them to become the sole focus. Ensure your children know that you are proud of their accomplishments.
  4. Embrace physical affection: Offer hugs, share laughter, and enjoy quality time together. These gestures of physical affection foster strong bonds and create a positive atmosphere for growth and development.
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